Of course, you would hope that you would never have to try and ponder the reasons why a woman you were seeing or a woman you were just attracted to would not fall in love with you, but sometimes it is good to take a look at that kind of thing so that you can learn from it. You might find that there are some simple changes that you can make that will raise the likelihood that someone would feel that way about you, so in that sense, it could wind up being a very productive thing for you to do.
Here are some of the reasons why a woman would not fall in love with a guy:
1) She doesn’t feel the kind of physical attraction that she wants to feel with a guy.
While this would definitely be one of the harder explanations to have to deal with, it could also prove to be one of the things that you can easily change. The keyword here is the word, feel. While you would assume that physical attraction is all about looks, it doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to look like you work out 7 days a week to make a woman feel physically attracted to you. However, if she doesn’t feel that kind of attraction, getting her to fall in love with you in a romantic way is going to be a pretty tall order.
2) She doesn’t think that you are relationship material.
She might feel that physical attraction and still not really fall for you, at least, not in the sense that she wants to be in a relationship with you. One of the explanations for this is if you don’t give her the impression that you can be a guy who can do well in a relationship. You can’t expect a woman to want to roll the dice and try her luck out with you if she gets the vibe that relationships just are not your thing.
3) You bring too much emotional baggage into the equation.
This one ties in with the last explanation. If you bring too much emotional baggage with you, then a lot of women are going to get turned off by that. They may want to help you out in a friendly way, but that is not the same thing as making a woman fall in love with you, is it? If you are the kind of guy who talks about past relationships just a little bit too much with women you meet, that could give off the wrong impression.